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Oh hello. I am Xuefang and I am 25. Chocolates and coffee and novels are my favorite things.

You can mail me at:
zhuangxuefang@yahoo.com


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Jeremiah 29:11. Jeremiah 29:11. For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord. They are plans for good and not for disaster,to give you a future and a hope.
13 Apr 2007
Frens are subjected to test of love and family?



hmm, today i met my sis to celebrate her belated birthday. We were sharing our daily events and was telling her about that jinx stuff. The dreaded sentence came out of her mouth, " you see, i told you liao. she definitely will get attached and get married one. you shouldnt wait for her liao. dont worry, i will still be single, so you can rest assured" somehow, i feel sianz. ...
She commented something, " you see, she is so busy liao juggling with her work and her bf, you are always the one dating her out, keeping in contact with her. xuefang, dont invest so much feelings and emotions in this frenship. otherwise you will get very hurt." i hate people use my name to talk about serious stuff. I already hate my name, using that to warn me, pisses me off.
i joked to her that, " what if one day, you all never hear news from me. i think you all should have guessed that i have passed away ba." I know that most of my frens are like that, they are too used to me keeping in contact. "doing the dirty job"
To me, it doesnt matter. As long they reciprocate it back, i am ok. I am confident of pals whom i regard dearly will give me something in return. How do you measure frenship?
I am not stupid either. I know how to find new frens to make my day. It is
usually the case that when my gfs are attached and busy with work, the time i spent with them is like once a month. They are like that, when they have problems with their ah boy, i become the suai person to advice and console them. Sad. Like toilet paper being used and thrown away after that. sianz. Nevertheless, I still have julia. Muak. haha.
After parting ways with sis, i called julia to chat. I was telling her all these stuff. She said one thing which i love her even more. " so what if that jinx is attached. so what if she is busy and ignores you for a long time. so what if everyone is attached and you are the only one single? should you mope around and lament your losses?"
I argued back:" No, what for? i have my own ways to make myself happy. i dont live for the sake of others. if no one accompanies me , then i go and make myself ocuppied lor.ya, i do feel lonely, but i can find ways to remove it lor.go gym lor. watch lame, comedy movies and laugh lor. going roller blading at the beach lor. Read books lor.There is always gain and loss in everything. heard too many stories of couples wasting each other youth, feelings and
emotions..cheating...betrayal... cao.. i can write stories of them liao sia."
Julia laughed: "ah gal, thought that you will give me a sad ans. haha. very confident of your frens hor."
I smirked: " hmm.. maybe i should disappear for a long time and see if they notice or not...haha...perharps they would then treasure me bah..."
Julia joked: " aiya. remember, if they really " zhong se qing you" and treat you like dirt, need you when they need, then they will get their retribution and dessert in a way or another. remember that lor. haha. got frens who treat you like gem one lor, we all, especially, ah hem, you know.so what if they are not around for you...at the very least, you still got me lor... dont think so much lah...frens come and go one lor... isnt that what jy says.."